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#41 24 Mar, 2009 10:53 pm

Re: internet boyfriend/girlfriend?

You know, I promised not to say anything, so I won't give names, but there are no less than three cases i know of where two RMD users are now dating or are married to someone they met here. they weren't looking for love, so it's not desperation to me. They just found it, and acted on it. However, in my view, they weren't actually 'dating' until they met. You can be in a relationship online. You can love someone online. But I think you can't earn the title of lover until you've made it official, face to face. If you don't want it to go that far, than you're not in love as much as you're just lonely.


Also, I wasn't clear about the picture thing: when i said to get it out of the way in the beginning, i meant the beginning of the relationship. You should know the person for at least, I'd say, 2-3 months, preferably longer, and it should be on equal terms. Both parties should be willing and respectful. An important thing about ANY relationship is respecting and accepting each other.


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#42 24 Mar, 2009 10:56 pm

Re: internet boyfriend/girlfriend?

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You know, I promised not to say anything, so I won't give names, but there are no less than three cases i know of where two RMD users are now dating or are married to someone they met here. they weren't looking for love, so it's not desperation to me. They just found it, and acted on it. However, in my view, they weren't actually 'dating' until they met. You can be in a relationship online. You can love someone online. But I think you can't earn the title of lover until you've made it official, face to face. If you don't want it to go that far, than you're not in love as much as you're just lonely.


Also, I wasn't clear about the picture thing: when i said to get it out of the way in the beginning, i meant the beginning of the relationship. You should know the person for at least, I'd say, 2-3 months, preferably longer, and it should be on equal terms. Both parties should be willing and respectful. An important thing about ANY relationship is respecting and accepting each other.

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#43 24 Mar, 2009 11:00 pm

Re: internet boyfriend/girlfriend?

Sub-Urban Artist wrote:

You know, I promised not to say anything, so I won't give names, but there are no less than three cases i know of where two RMD users are now dating or are married to someone they met here. they weren't looking for love, so it's not desperation to me. They just found it, and acted on it. However, in my view, they weren't actually 'dating' until they met. You can be in a relationship online. You can love someone online. But I think you can't earn the title of lover until you've made it official, face to face. If you don't want it to go that far, than you're not in love as much as you're just lonely.


Also, I wasn't clear about the picture thing: when i said to get it out of the way in the beginning, i meant the beginning of the relationship. You should know the person for at least, I'd say, 2-3 months, preferably longer, and it should be on equal terms. Both parties should be willing and respectful. An important thing about ANY relationship is respecting and accepting each other.

yes yes, well said.smile


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#44 24 Mar, 2009 11:04 pm

Re: internet boyfriend/girlfriend?

Yeah I know people can find eachother online nd stuff.
>.>
Grr..you know what I really hate? Perverts.
Like..online perverts.
Right now, this little 12 year old is trying to cyber me..
What the fux?
-I like saying fux-
>.>
Anyway..what happened to..unpervertedness? o.o
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grrr...I hate that. Pervs online. Seriously. people need to get lives. Sigh..the internet.
Even though I love it.
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#45 24 Mar, 2009 11:05 pm

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Ew.

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#46 24 Mar, 2009 11:06 pm

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you love it? ok......is the 12 year old on RMD?


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#47 24 Mar, 2009 11:10 pm

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Personally, I wouldn't do it. But sometimes taking the risk is good. My dad met a girl in germany through myspace, they chatted for 1 month &+ now she &+ her son live with us. They are soon getting married.


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#48 24 Mar, 2009 11:11 pm

Re: internet boyfriend/girlfriend?

itachiooberness wrote:

Yeah I know people can find eachother online nd stuff.
>.>
Grr..you know what I really hate? Perverts.
Like..online perverts.
Right now, this little 12 year old is trying to cyber me..
What the fux?
-I like saying fux-
>.>
Anyway..what happened to..unpervertedness? o.o
DX
grrr...I hate that. Pervs online. Seriously. people need to get lives. Sigh..the internet.
Even though I love it.
XPP

Indeed o.o I agree big_smile though Sub will probably tell me I'm boring for thinking so >3>(since he has already mentioned this once or twice xD)


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#49 24 Mar, 2009 11:11 pm

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WTH Sub!!! shut up!!! thats disgusting!!!mad......LMAO!!! but its hilareous!!!!tongue


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#50 24 Mar, 2009 11:13 pm

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But there is a difference between having a bf online, &+ meeting someone on a dating site. Think about it;


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#51 24 Mar, 2009 11:14 pm

Re: internet boyfriend/girlfriend?

TAYl0R wrote:

Personally, I wouldn't do it. But sometimes taking the risk is good. My dad met a girl in germany through myspace, they chatted for 1 month &+ now she &+ her son live with us. They are soon getting married.

oh are we talking about stuff like that now? o3o my dad met some lady on skype who lives in China , apparently she wants to come to the US but he has to go over there for a year first and marry her (and he plans to) but it's stupid because they both have a LOT of issues , like my dad being a drunk ._. and every time he isn't in the chatroom talking to her for 5 minutes she cusses him out accusing him of cheating on her =3= I really can't see that going well , especially since my dad has been divorced three times prior xD oh and apparently she has a 13 year old daughter ._.

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#52 24 Mar, 2009 11:14 pm

Re: internet boyfriend/girlfriend?

ok this forum has taken a nasty turn for the worst

Last edited by storm painter (24 Mar, 2009 11:15 pm)


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#53 24 Mar, 2009 11:16 pm

Re: internet boyfriend/girlfriend?

storm painter wrote:

ok this forum has taken a nasty turn for the worst

I blame plastic cups in landfills.......they don't back talk big_smile


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#54 24 Mar, 2009 11:17 pm

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??????


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#55 24 Mar, 2009 11:20 pm

Re: internet boyfriend/girlfriend?

storm painter wrote:

??????

it was a joke o.o I was blaming innanimate objects (not living things) because they can't talk back when you blame them hmm that was all yikes


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#56 24 Mar, 2009 11:20 pm

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yeah, delete it plz xD


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#57 24 Mar, 2009 11:29 pm

Re: internet boyfriend/girlfriend?

Sarru wrote:

storm painter wrote:

??????

it was a joke o.o I was blaming innanimate objects (not living things) because they can't talk back when you blame them hmm that was all yikes

I chuckled. (:


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#58 24 Mar, 2009 11:32 pm

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oh i get it now!!! lol

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#59 24 Mar, 2009 11:45 pm

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storm painter wrote:

you love it? ok......is the 12 year old on RMD?

No i don't love cybering I love the internet.
Lol wow i messed up my words I'm so dumb x.x
No hes not hes on a chat website
thank god not here XP

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#60 24 Mar, 2009 11:46 pm

Re: internet boyfriend/girlfriend?

Sarru wrote:

itachiooberness wrote:

Yeah I know people can find eachother online nd stuff.
>.>
Grr..you know what I really hate? Perverts.
Like..online perverts.
Right now, this little 12 year old is trying to cyber me..
What the fux?
-I like saying fux-
>.>
Anyway..what happened to..unpervertedness? o.o
DX
grrr...I hate that. Pervs online. Seriously. people need to get lives. Sigh..the internet.
Even though I love it.
XPP

Indeed o.o I agree big_smile though Sub will probably tell me I'm boring for thinking so >3>(since he has already mentioned this once or twice xD)

Lol XP
Well tis true o.o

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